Sam Ross

Welcome to the place that will help you to successfully work with troubled teens, and particularly the extra tricky disengaged ones!

Geared towards anyone who has an interest in helping challenging young people in their day to day lives- social workers, teachers, youth workers, youth justice workers, probation officers, and students.

The aim of this site is to help you all become teenage whisperers:
people who can relate to, understand and help teenagers break out of negative behaviour cycles so that they can truly flourish.


This site comes from my firm belief that teen behavioural problems, such as aggressive behaviour, antisocial behaviour, youth offending, alcohol or drug abuse, self-harm, or eating disorders to name a few, come from a place of hurt and of unmet needs. Their lives and the people in it have often been a great disappointment, and unfortunately that can include professionals who are supposed to be helping them.

I also firmly believe that with the right approach, with the right tools and coming from a place of care that young people can be empowered to change their lives for the better. We can help them do this by striving to constantly improve the quality of the work we do with our teens.

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To help you achieve this I provide advice and tips in regular blog posts, a resource list, complete programmes of work to use with young people, a newsletter and a forum for sharing problems, ideas and news on Twitter and Facebook. Not only will all this help you to engage young people, but will hopefully also feed you as a hard-pressed worker- motivate you to be the best you can be in reaching out to these young people.

Site areas

This site has several areas:

Their Voice: a regular blog post written in the voice of a troubled teen, giving insight into their problems and their thought processes and also providing practical stategies for you to use when trying to reach out to them and help.
Out of the Box: a regular blog post written in my voice to get you thinking and to feed and motivate you, because we all need some of that!
Resources: tried and tested books, DVDs, TV programs  and programs of work (external and in-house)

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